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Development, Leadership

Cultivating Self-Awareness in Leadership: A Path to Authenticity and Growth

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Self-awareness is a cornerstone of effective leadership. It involves understanding your strengths, weaknesses, emotions, and the impact you have on others. Leaders who cultivate self-awareness are better equipped to navigate the complexities of their roles, foster genuine relationships, and inspire their teams. This blog post explores the importance of self-awareness for leaders and provides actionable strategies to enhance this critical skill.

Why Self-Awareness Matters in Leadership

  1. Improved Decision Making: Self-aware leaders are better decision-makers. They understand their biases and emotions, which allows them to make more rational and objective choices. This clarity leads to more consistent and effective leadership.

  2. Enhanced Emotional Intelligence: Emotional intelligence is crucial for managing relationships. Self-aware leaders can recognize their emotional triggers and manage their responses. This skill helps in resolving conflicts, building trust, and creating a positive work environment.

  3. Authenticity and Trust: Leaders who are aware of their values and beliefs are more authentic. Authenticity builds trust with team members, as it shows that the leader is genuine and consistent in their actions and decisions.

  4. Personal and Professional Growth: Self-awareness fosters continuous learning and development. Leaders who understand their strengths can leverage them effectively, while acknowledging their weaknesses opens opportunities for growth and improvement.

Strategies to Enhance Self-Awareness

  1. Reflective Practices: Regular reflection on your actions, decisions, and interactions can significantly enhance self-awareness. Set aside time each day to think about what went well and what could be improved.

  2. Seek Feedback: Actively seek feedback from peers, mentors, and team members. Constructive feedback provides valuable insights into how others perceive you, helping you identify blind spots and areas for development.

  3. Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness and meditation can improve your emotional regulation and self-awareness. These practices help you stay present, understand your emotions, and respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.

  4. Personal Development Programs: Enroll in leadership development programs that focus on self-awareness and emotional intelligence. These programs offer tools and techniques to enhance your self-understanding and leadership effectiveness.

  5. Journaling: Maintain a journal to document your thoughts, experiences, and reflections. Writing down your insights can help you process your experiences and gain deeper self-awareness.

  6. Emotional Intelligence Assessments: Use EI assessments to evaluate your emotional strengths and areas for improvement. Tools like the Emotional Quotient Inventory can provide a structured approach to understanding your emotional competencies.

Conclusion

Self-awareness is not a destination but a continuous journey of growth and improvement. By actively cultivating self-awareness, leaders can enhance their emotional intelligence, make better decisions, and build authentic relationships with their teams. As you strive to become a more self-aware leader, remember that the journey is just as important as the destination.

Credits: This blog post is inspired by insights shared by Ben Meer on LinkedIn. For more on the topic, check out Ben’s original post here.

Development, Hotels, Leadership

Signs You’re Working with a Great Leader

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Working with a great leader can be a transformative experience that enhances your professional growth and overall job satisfaction.

Here are signs to help you recognize if you’re fortunate enough to work for an exceptional leader:

  1. They Truly Listen: Great leaders make you feel heard. They don’t just nod and move on; they actively engage with your ideas and feedback, making you feel valued and respected. They prioritize regular communication to understand their team’s perspectives and concerns.
  2. They Show Genuine Appreciation: Recognizing and celebrating your contributions is a key trait of a great leader. Regular acknowledgment of your hard work boosts morale and encourages continued excellence. They highlight achievements in team meetings and through personalized recognition.
  3. They Cultivate a Positive Culture: A positive workplace culture where everyone feels motivated and valued is crucial. Great leaders foster an environment that encourages innovation and collaboration. They celebrate diversity and inclusivity, creating a welcoming atmosphere for all.
  4. They Promote Team Collaboration: Collaboration is at the heart of a successful team. Great leaders know how to bring people together to achieve common goals. They facilitate team-building activities and open forums to promote teamwork and shared success.
  5. They Invest in Your Growth: A commitment to your professional development is a sign of a great leader. Providing opportunities for learning and advancement demonstrates their investment in your future. They support their team’s aspirations by offering training programs and career development workshops.
  6. They Challenge You to Excel: Pushing you out of your comfort zone helps you grow. Great leaders encourage you to take on new challenges, helping you realize your full potential. They believe in setting ambitious goals and providing the necessary support to achieve them.
  7. They Offer Flexibility: Understanding that life extends beyond work is essential. Great leaders provide the flexibility needed to balance personal and professional commitments.
  8. They Maintain a Respectful Environment: Addressing toxic behavior promptly ensures a respectful and positive work environment. Great leaders do not tolerate negativity, fostering a culture of respect and integrity. They have a zero-tolerance policy for toxic behavior and actively work to resolve conflicts amicably.

In summary, working for a great leader can significantly impact your professional journey. If you see these traits in your leader, you’re likely in an environment that fosters growth, respect, and success. These principles are essential in creating a workplace where everyone thrives.

Leadership

All the Motivation You Need to Finish the Year!

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I know how you feel… it is the beginning of December, you have had a pretty busy and challenging eleven months behind you, and you are on the right track, but it feels like you have yet to accomplish so much to successfully finish the year.  I mentioned in my previous post The Only Way to Succeed that ‘success does not come without efforts and suffering, success comes with sweat, blood and tears – victory then tastes so much better’, and this is true whenever you want to accomplish something that’s great, and not accept average. With final projects pending and waiting to be completed before the end of the year, you will need to put in all the energy for one more push to succeed. But where should you get the motivation from? … nothing is more motivating than Al Pacino’s speech in ‘Any Given Sunday’ – enjoy watching If you enjoyed reading this post please don’t forget to subscribe to my blog for the newest posts and updates!  
Leadership

What You Must Know Before Training Your Employees

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I attended a training this week with focus on rooms (front desk and housekeeping) operations within the hotel industry, and was amazed by what I learned. It was not so much the knowledge and expertise shared by the instructors, but the way how it was shared with the group. We had over 80 attendees in the training, and the instructors would divide the group into smaller teams of five to ten participants maximum and rotate them from one exercise to the next, so that the training would be much more intimate and personal, and everyone could try hands on what was discussed and learned just a moment ago. Continue reading What You Must Know Before Training Your Employees →

Guest Services, Leadership

Forget About Who’s Getting The Credit!

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President Truman once said that ‘it is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit’, and it captures one of the main challenges within any industry – we hesitate to take ownership and go the extra mile, if we feel that others are not stepping up to the plate as well and that we do not get the proper credit for our efforts.

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We want to do great and go beyond, but it’s important for us that everyone else does the exactly same thing too. How often do we complain about having too much on our plate, if the person next to us works as dedicated as we do? We usually don’t! We mostly complain that others are doing less than we do, and that this is not fair. Why should we do more than others? Continue reading Forget About Who’s Getting The Credit! →

Development, Leadership

Steve Jobs’ Most Memorable Speech

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Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment of failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

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Above is a taste of Steve Jobs’ 2005 Stanford Commencement Address and one of the Top 10 Commencement Speeches of all times. It’s also most motivating and encouraging when having to face the uncomfortable situations in life and when having to make the tough decisions that really matter and make a difference. Watch the full speech by clicking on video below.

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Development

My Take on SoulCycle

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I just returned from my first SoulCycle experience at Soul West Village and have to admit that I feel great, absolutely exhausted, but great! While striving to achieve a healthy work-life balance, I was always looking to workout more often (who doesn’t, right?), and more importantly on a consistent basis. I would never come up with the energy to workout by myself.

So a couple of months ago I discovered the Niketown Running Club and would run in Central Park twice a week. I was fascinated by the encouraging feeling of running in a group, and by being pushed to do more by the fellow runners. I recently moved from Midtown to West Village, further away from Niketown, and with it the original excitement to commit myself to run weekly started fading away.

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Development, Leadership

The Power of ‘Thank You’

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I first heard about the power of frequently writing ‘thank you’ notes a couple of weeks ago at a training about leadership. The instructor of the training made a point of highlighting the power of saying thank you for a job well done, and how effective ‘thank you’ notes are for appreciation and recognition.

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Motivated and inspired by the training I started writing these notes for a couple of days until my excitement started fading away, and I just stopped doing it. I felt that it really wasn’t that important, and that people wouldn’t care anyway. Until last weekend… Continue reading The Power of ‘Thank You’ →

Development, Leadership

212° the extra degree

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At 211 degrees, water is hot. At 212 degrees, water starts boiling. With boiling water comes steam, and with steam you can power a locomotive. It is that one extra degree that makes all the difference, and it is that one extra degree that separates the good from the great!

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How often did you have the feeling of frustration and lost motivation because you couldn’t seem to achieve your goals, and that no matter how much efforts you put in and how hard you tried, nothing was going to change? … chances are that you were sitting right at 211 degrees, and all it would have taken for you to succeed was that one extra degree.

Much too often we give up right before that moment when we would have accomplished everything what we strived for, and we just needed to keep trying. If you want to get ahead, become great at what you do and be successful in achieving your goals you’ll need to keep going when it seems to be the toughest and not turn around.

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How to make your guests happy with effective service recovery

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People can make mistakes and things can go wrong, and when they do go wrong and our guests’ stay with us is affected by the service breakdown, it’s up to us to get it right and turn them around. A guest who experienced a problem and it got resolved to her satisfaction is more likely to return compared to a guest who just had an average stay without having experienced any ‘glitches’.

Service recovery is not rocket science (just takes a lot of practice), but it’s important to keep in mind that you want to solve the right problem, that you solve it to the guest satisfaction and not yours, and that you choose the right form of recovery/compensation.

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In my first year of working in a hotel, I was a housekeeping supervisor and we had a guest complaining about the room cleanliness during my shift. The guest was out for dinner and I was on a mission to not only getting it right, but also to ‘roll out the red carpet’ for the guest. I just transferred from cross-training in our room service department and remembered the beautiful cheese plate amenity and chose to have it arranged in the room with a bottle of our house red wine and an apology note. I ensured that the turn down was done perfectly and that everything looked sparkling. I left the hotel that evening with a good feeling of heroic accomplishment and I was sure to have turned an upset guest around into a loyal customer. Continue reading How to make your guests happy with effective service recovery →