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Development, Leadership

12 Hard Truths About Career Growth – And How to Use Them to Your Advantage

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If you want to grow in your career, work hard. Show up. Give your best effort in everything you do. That part doesn’t change. But hard work alone isn’t enough – you also need to understand how the game is played.

Some of these lessons took me years to learn. Others came quickly, often through mistakes. The earlier you embrace them, the more control you’ll have over your own success.

1. Hard Work Alone Won’t Get You There – But It’s Still Essential

Effort matters. Dedication matters. But if no one sees your impact, it’s easy to be overlooked. Success comes from a combination of hard work, visibility, and delivering results that matter. Don’t just work hard- work smart, speak up, and make sure your contributions are recognized.

2. Loyalty is Valuable – But Business is Business

Companies make decisions based on what’s best for the business, not just individuals. That’s not a reflection of you – it’s just how businesses operate. The key is to stay committed to excellence in your work while also keeping an eye on your own growth and development.

3. Your Title Doesn’t Define You – Your Skills Do

A title may look great on a business card, but it’s what you can do that determines your value. Focus on building skills, learning continuously, and adapting. That’s what will make you successful no matter where you go.

4. Leadership Doesn’t Always Have the Right Answer

Great leaders make tough decisions, but they’re not infallible. The best leaders appreciate perspective, solutions, and constructive feedback. That’s why learning how to challenge ideas respectfully is an essential skill – it makes you a valuable contributor, not just a follower.

5. Relationships Matter as Much as Talent

Your skills will open doors, but relationships help you walk through them faster. The people you connect with today might be the ones who recommend you for an opportunity tomorrow. Be someone people respect, trust, and want to work with.

6. Burnout Isn’t a Badge of Honor – Sustained Excellence Wins

I used to think working the hardest and the longest would set me apart. But what truly sets you apart is the ability to perform at a high level consistently. That requires balance, discipline, and knowing how to manage your energy – not just your time.

7. Growth Comes from Doing What’s Uncomfortable

Every major leap in my career happened when I took on something that made me nervous. Growth requires taking on challenges before you feel fully ready. The fastest way to build confidence? Get started.

8. Learn to Take Feedback Without Taking It Personally

Feedback isn’t always easy to hear, but it’s one of the fastest ways to improve. Instead of feeling defensive, ask yourself, “What can I take from this to get better?” The people who grow the fastest are the ones who seek feedback – not avoid it.

9. No One is Irreplaceable – But Impact is What Lasts

Being “indispensable” isn’t the goal. Instead, focus on making a real impact. The most valuable professionals aren’t the ones trying to hold onto a role – they’re the ones who create value, solve problems, and leave things better than they found them.

10. Don’t Overthink – Just Get Things Done

The best people in any organization aren’t always the smartest or the most strategic – they’re the ones who get things done. There’s a place for planning and discussing, but execution is what moves things forward. Be the person who follows through, delivers, and helps make things happen.

11. Progress Doesn’t Always Look Like a Straight Line

Some of the best career moves aren’t “up.” Sometimes they’re sideways, diagonal, or unexpected. A different role, a temporary step back, or an unfamiliar challenge might be the thing that propels you forward in the long run.

12. No One is Going to Manage Your Career for You

The people who get ahead are the ones who take ownership of their careers. They don’t wait for permission. They ask for opportunities. They step up. No one will come and say, “Now is your time.” You have to make it your time.

Final Thought: Control What You Can, Adapt to the Rest

There are things in your career that you can’t control – but there’s also a lot that you can. You control how much you learn, how hard you work, the relationships you build, and the attitude you bring to every challenge.

People who take ownership of their work, show up with a great attitude, and consistently get things done will always be the ones who move forward.

Development, Leadership

Essential Leadership Insights: 12 Key Lessons

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Effective leadership is a journey of continuous learning and self-improvement. Here are twelve crucial lessons to help you lead with excellence:

  1. Self-Reflection: Evaluate your role if your team isn’t succeeding. Leadership starts with self-awareness and accountability.
  2. Handling Criticism: Embrace feedback as a growth tool. Being open to criticism is vital for personal and professional development.
  3. Leadership vs. Management: Understand the distinction between managing tasks and leading people. Your influence comes from your team’s trust and respect.
  4. Practice What You Preach: Consistency between your words and actions fosters a trustworthy and cohesive team culture.
  5. Trust: Delegate effectively and trust your team’s abilities. Micromanagement undermines their confidence and autonomy.
  6. Development: Invest in your team’s growth. Providing opportunities for development strengthens the overall team dynamic.
  7. Open Communication: Foster an environment where team members feel safe to voice their concerns. Open dialogue is essential for innovation and problem-solving.
  8. Accountability: Own your mistakes and demonstrate accountability. This builds a culture of responsibility and transparency.
  9. Set Standards: Lead by setting high standards of excellence. Your team will follow your example and strive for the same level of performance.
  10. Service Leadership: Prioritize your team’s needs and support them in achieving their goals. Effective leaders serve their team to drive collective success.
  11. Lead by Example: Your actions speak louder than words. Inspire your team through your conduct and work ethic.
  12. Share the Blame and Fame: Take responsibility for failures and share successes with your team. This cultivates a loyal and motivated team spirit.

Detailed Insights

  1. Self-Reflection: If your team is failing, take a hard look at your leadership approach. Often, the root cause of team failure lies in leadership flaws. Embrace this wake-up call as an opportunity to improve.
  2. Handling Criticism: Criticism is a valuable tool for growth. Leaders who can’t accept feedback miss out on crucial insights that can drive improvement. Learn to view criticism objectively and use it to refine your strategies.
  3. Leadership vs. Management: A manager oversees tasks; a leader inspires and motivates. Your title may grant you managerial duties, but your ability to lead is earned through respect and trust. Strive to be the kind of leader your team willingly follows.
  4. Practice What You Preach: Hypocrisy erodes team morale. If you emphasize the importance of teamwork, ensure your actions reflect that value. Consistency between your words and actions reinforces your credibility as a leader.
  5. Trust: Micromanagement signals a lack of trust in your team. Empower your team by delegating responsibilities and trusting them to deliver. This builds their confidence and encourages a more proactive and engaged workforce.
  6. Development: A leader’s role includes nurturing the growth of their team. Provide learning opportunities, mentorship, and support. When you invest in your team’s development, you enhance their skills and the overall performance of the organization.
  7. Open Communication: A team that fears speaking up is a team stifled by silence. Create an open-door policy where team members feel safe to share their thoughts and concerns. This openness fosters innovation and addresses issues before they escalate.
  8. Accountability: Accountability starts at the top. When leaders admit their mistakes, it sets a powerful example for the team. This culture of accountability encourages everyone to take ownership of their actions and strive for continuous improvement.
  9. Set Standards: Don’t just set the pace; set high standards. Excellence is contagious. When you demonstrate a commitment to high standards, your team will be inspired to meet and exceed them.
  10. Service Leadership: Shift your mindset from authority to service. Your primary role is to support and facilitate your team’s success. This servant leadership approach builds trust and loyalty, driving collective achievements.
  11. Lead by Example: Your behavior sets the tone for your team. If you want to inspire dedication and hard work, model those qualities yourself. Leading by example is one of the most powerful ways to influence your team positively.
  12. Share the Blame and Fame: True leaders take responsibility for failures and generously share successes. This approach fosters a collaborative and appreciative team environment, where everyone feels valued and motivated to contribute their best.

Incorporating these lessons into your leadership approach can transform your team dynamics and lead to greater success. Remember, effective leadership is an ongoing journey of growth and self-improvement.

Development

Why you should start a career with W Bangkok!

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Why you should start a career with W Bangkok when there are so many other options in Bangkok with many new exciting hotel projects coming up every year? When I first started this blog I talked about why you should start a career in hospitality to begin with. It’s a journey that’s challenging, but always exciting! Every day is different, you gain many experiences in different departments, and the best part… it’s all about people! And not to forget, you get to travel the world, if you choose to do so. Now I want to talk about why you should choose a career with W Bangkok over any other hotel in the city. More and more hotels are opening up in Bangkok each year, and graduates have more and more options to choose from. But not all options, as exciting as they may look at first, will help you build the right foundation for your career. Continue reading Why you should start a career with W Bangkok! →
Leadership

Build A Team of A Players!

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Steve Jobs stated in ‘The Lost Interview’ that to be truly successful and accomplish something great together you need to build a team of A players and should not settle for B or C players.

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This is true for any industry, but especially for hospitality. Receiving average service from an associate who is not passionate and doesn’t seem to care, and experiencing service from someone who sincerely cares about you and about providing excellent service, makes all the difference for you, and how successful the hotel can be. Continue reading Build A Team of A Players! →

How To, Leadership

What To Do First When Starting A New Job

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I recently started an assignment at a new property and wanted to share my experiences with you. I know it seems pretty obvious what should be the first thing to do when starting a new job, so why do I even talk about it.

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I read plenty of articles about what’s important and what to focus on, and while most of them will list five to ten points of what’s important to keep in mind, they all highlight that you need to focus on people. Think about every time a new employee started at your company, and about the ones that did well? What did they do differently? Did they focus on getting their office desk organized, studying the financials and company’s guidelines? No, they did well, because they started with walking around trying to make a connection with the team.

Well, things might be overwhelming at the beginning with everything being new and it’s very well possible that you could lose focus of what matters most. It doesn’t matter how smart and talented you are, how much experience you have and how well you did at your previous job, if you are new, you will have to start from scratch again and you will not go very far if you don’t focus on your people first.

The beautiful thing about hospitality is that it’s all about people, if you take care of your employees, they will take care of your guests, and guess what, your business and the bottom line will then just take care of itself… it’s that simple.

So we have established that you should first focus on getting to know everyone and build relationships, but is it really that simple? No, certainly not, because in most cases mountains of work, and new assignments with pressing deadlines are already waiting for you… and that’s how your performance is being measured on, right?

You need to focus on your people first, otherwise you will not be effective, and all the work that is waiting for you, will not get done at all. Try to focus on your big rocks and what matters most first, and keep in mind that you are a leader, and if you have no one following you, you’re really missing the point of it.

Best of luck on your first days!

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Development, Guest Services, Leadership

What You Must Know About Five Star Service – Never Assume!

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I recently attended a Forbes five-stars training at my hotel. The Forbes trainer started the training by explaining how it feels to receive five-star service as a guest, and the genuine care and attention to detail that come with it. The trainer continued that while many of us have been working in the hotel industry for very many years and believe to exactly know our customers that we should never assume that a certain guest doesn’t care about us offering service that goes beyond and only cares about the basics. Continue reading What You Must Know About Five Star Service – Never Assume! →

Leadership

The Secret Of Effective Communication

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When I started in hospitality I believed myself to be an effective communicator and always made sure that my coworkers and superiors would be up to date with the information that I had so that everyone would stay ahead of the game. Once I moved to management I remember telling my director that he should improve his communication to the team and I was convinced that I could do a better job communicating if I was in his position. It’s not that he wouldn’t communicate what was going on, but I was mostly the one asking him for updates and trying to get myself involved as much as I could to get the information I needed in order for me to be effective…. and I still believed communication to be one of my strengths.

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Development

Do you know what your goals are?

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What’s my goal, is one of the most important questions you can ask yourself at the beginning of your journey and your career in hospitality!

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I am recruiting graduates from hotel management schools for the position of housekeeping floor manager now for years, and my experience is that many, if not most, do not have clearly defined goals and are rushed to get promoted as fast as possible, and definitely faster than their peers from school. Continue reading Do you know what your goals are? →