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Who are ‘they’?

I don’t know why ‘they’ did this. ‘They’ asked me to tell you. ‘They’ want us to do this now. Does this sound familiar to you?

Who the heck are ‘they’? Not only in the hotel industry, but in any business, if anything went wrong, an unpopular decision was made, or simply anytime someone didn’t want to step out of the comfort zone, accept ownership or responsibility, it’s ‘they’. Convenient isn’t it?

Simply put you will talk about ‘they’ when you don’t want to accept responsibility, and even more importantly, when you don’t identify yourself with your organization, or better yet, with the leaders that you are working for and their decisions.

So whose fault is it that our employees and us talk about ‘they’ every time it’s not pleasant, favorable or popular? By the way it’s not just our employees, you hear them talking about ‘they’ at any level of the organization. For our front line employees, ‘they’ is their managers, and for those managers, ‘they’ is their directors and executives, and the buck never stops…

So whose fault is it again? Well, the easy way out is that ‘they’ are the top leaders or top brass of the organization for not encouraging their employees to take responsibility and ownership, and hindering trust and empowerment by micromanaging from the top down. The cost of this dysfunctional environment caused by this lack of ownership is unbearable, and the only reason why a hotel fostering this mindset is able to stay in business is that this mindset was allowed to become an industry standard. Continue reading Who are ‘they’?

How to achieve Harmony

Establishing a harmonic work environment isn’t easy, and I learned that you can only achieve harmony once you stop trying to and worrying too much about it. When I started as a manager a couple of years ago I remember experiencing plenty of conflict every day caused by a changing leadership team, inadequate staffing levels, and unexperienced managers (myself included). It took us about twelve month to get to a setting that allowed us to improve and accomplish greatness as a team. I recall coming to work and I could not believe to experience a day without any conflict, and I clearly remember my hope and concern that it would not last and stay like that… almost to a point that I wished I would be able to avoid any possible conflict only to guarantee this just achieved harmony. But it never worked, I wasn’t able to turn a blind eye either, and the conflict didn’t stop.

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Make Mistakes!

Making mistakes, being able to accept responsibility for them and learning from them, can help you grow and get better.

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I remember when I was working within the butler services in Vienna, I had a family arriving to one of our Imperial suites for their vacation. The Imperial suite was the category right below the Presidential suite, the hotel had seven of them in total, and they differentiated in design and layout, from traditional to modern. Given that the family paid rack rate for the suite, I arranged for VIP amenities including flower arrangements, a majestic fruit basket, open bar and a bottle of Champagne. The suite looked incredible and it took me a couple of hours from start to finish to set everything up to perfection. Continue reading Make Mistakes!

Service Profit Chain

You most likely heard about the service profit chain before and the ‘magical’ concept behind it. At the end of the service profit chain stands the purpose of your company, the long-term profitability and sustainability of your hotels.

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How can you get the most profit for your hotel, and who gives you the most amount of money? … of course happy guests! Happy guests will spend more money each time they stay with you, stay more often and longer, and tell their friends about it. And you probably know how powerful word of mouth can be. Working at my previous hotel in Shanghai the HR director went on a business trip to the US with representatives of the owning company to experience the brand and what it stands for. At one of the properties during their trip the HR director ordered room service for the group who decided to stay in for the evening, and wanted to order a simple Chinese noodle soup, something that her guests would appreciate and enjoy. Once the order was delivered up to the room, it was not what she had in mind for her guests and called the room service order taker back to correct the misunderstanding. The order taker didn’t try to empathize, told her that it wasn’t a misunderstanding, and that she received what she ordered (needless to say a very disappointing and discouraging experience). The HR director came back from the business trip and told this story of how one bad interaction can leave a lasting negative impression at the next operations meeting and general assembly, and I keep telling this story as an example of how powerful word of mouth can be (unfortunately negative word of mouth will always be more popular than positive). So striving to keep your guests happy and satisfied makes sense.

How do you keep your guests happy? Right, with happy associates. Sounds too easy to be true? Well, did you ever receive really good service from someone who did not enjoy her job or doesn’t care? You probably could tell that it’s not sincere and just doesn’t feel right. Happy employees deliver passionate, sincere and caring service to make your guests happy. They will go above and beyond, not because they have to, but because they enjoy doing it. Having learned in a very traditional hotel in Austria, I was very much focused on standards and service excellence, always wanting to strive for perfection, and having the highest expectations for myself and for others in return. In my first real management position in China, I was trying to train the employees in my team to deliver exactly this, excellent service without exceptions, and perfection at every turn. I still remember the review with my previous boss very vividly, and how he told me that I need to change my management style to be successful… something that I found difficult to believe, and didn’t want to hear at first. I wasn’t happy about him telling me that I need to change and tried to argue his feedback. It took me a couple of days/weeks to understand that he was right, and I am still thankful that he didn’t care about having to push back on me trying to argue and simply wanted me to grow and become a better leader. He told me that standards and striving for perfection is important, but the foundation for all this will always be fun! You need to enjoy what you are doing and have fun at it! As a leader you need to be able to motivate your employees to be successful and achieve great results because they enjoy what they are doing, and not because they have to.

Now we covered that we want to build a culture that encourages our employees to have fun at work, make our guests happy in return so that they spend more money and tell their friends about it. But who exactly is responsible for happy employees? It’s not only your manager or HR department, but it’s the leader in you and every employee in the hotel. Everyone has the power to be a real hero, and make the people around you happy!

The Service Profit Chain is not magical at all, but very real, and there is nothing more encouraging and exciting than working in a business whose success is directly linked to the happiness of its employees. Wouldn’t you want to work in a place like this?

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My real Hero

Before I moved from Europe to New York City about six years ago, I left my old computer with my mom and showed her how to send e-mails. I took me an entire afternoon to walk her through the process from starting the computer to hitting the ‘send’ button, and make her feel comfortable with it.

The-Man-of-Steel-dc-comics-34648365-2880-1800Once I arrived in New York I got a text message from my mom telling me that the computer and e-mail does not work. So I called my friend in my home town to stop by and go over it again with my mom. He didn’t talk to me for weeks, so I guess he must have had the same frustrating experience as I did. Continue reading My real Hero